Thursday, November 14, 2013

The Book of me - My Physical Self

My Physical Self

This blog post is my response to the third prompt in Julie Goucher's 15 month blogging and writing challenge entitled The Book of Me, Written by You. 

I'm not sure how many people find it confronting to describe their physical appearance. It is not something one often  does. We display our physical selves through profile pictures on social media sites, passports and driving licences but the actual act of talking or writing about one's physical attributes seems challenging.
As a family historian, I have experienced the thrill of discovering  documents which record the physical characteristics of  ancestors. Despite being a convict, my three times great grandfather sounds quite rugged with his  'ruddy complexion, hazel eyes and a scar above his right eyebrow' and I must confess an instant bond of familiarity formed with my great great grandmother with whose 'brown hair, blue eyes and freckled appearance' I share. My olive ( but freckled) skin, however, comes from my father's Scottish background - Scottish or Roman influence I like to imagine!
I understand the historical significance of recording this kind of information. So here goes... and there's a fair chance  I should come out looking better to my own descendants, than my convict great great great grandfather who was described on the NSW Convict Indent as having 'a pock-marked face, numerous scars and large swollen veins on both legs'.

I have olive skin
As a child I was desperate to look like my younger sister. She was everything I was not - blonde, thin and tall. Most significantly, she had very long thick hair. While my sister was allowed to grow her hair gloriously long, my hair was cut very short and to add insult to injured pride, I sported a most dreadfully short fringe. Fortunately at a very young age I was blissfully unaware of just how really unflattering that fringe was. And in my very short hair, I ALWAYS wore a huge bow! As you can see in the photograph below, taken at the Oasis Gardens Swimming pool in Brisbane when I was aged two years, I even had a bow in my hair when swimming.... 
My hair was blonde as a toddler before it turned brown around age three, as in the above photograph. 

Throughout my childhood I dreamed of growing my hair long. My hair is quite fine and most likely that was the sensible reason that it was cut short throughout my childhood. I, however, constantly imagined myself with long flowing tresses like my sister, whose hair by the age of ten was still beautifully blonde and almost reached her knees.  While I dreamed of myself as a flaxen haired Rapunzel, alas, my hair remained dark and short! 

Me, aged three years with short hair and fringe.

Although I would not have been described as a chubby child, I undoubtedly inherited my Scottish McDade and Campbell ancestral short and distinctly not thin build. Ah.. if only my mother's Swiss blonde and lithe forebears' genes had been more stalwart and not passed me by!
I was usually the shortest in my class throughout my schooldays. Now, as an adult, I measure 5 foot 2 inches...and shrinking... With Scottish and Germanic stoutness clearly embedded in my genes, it is fortunate that in true Scots tradition, I enjoy a battle. My ancestors may have disgraced themselves at the battle of Culloden (another blog..) but I work persistently to win the Battle of the Bulge.

A cheeky 2 year old. Note the bow!

I have always enjoyed being able to say that I am 5 foot 2, eyes of blue'.

My Hands 
My baby grand daughter Primrose's hand holding mine. September 5 2013.

Primrose Jemima Florence White-O'Rourke 5/9/13 - 6/9/13

The Book of me - Me as a Baby

The Book of me, Written by You. 
Prompt 2.

Who Are You?

I am participating in The Book of me, Written by You blogging challenge created by Julie Goucher of the Anglers Rest Blog. The concept; a series of blogging and writing prompts that help family historians capture their own memories and write about themselves. Click here for more information.

Me, a 'Chubby' bubby  aged 11 months.

1.Do you have any baby photos?  The photograph at top, of myself aged 5 months in the basket, is the earliest surviving photo I have. Many of my family photographs were destroyed in the 1974 Brisbane flood. This photograph was taken in the month of June which is winter in Australia, hence the woollen bonnet which was undoubtedly knitted by my paternal grandmother, Jemima Florence MacDade (nee White). I have no idea what became of the bassinette basket pictured, although I do recall both of my younger sisters sleeping in it as babies. 

2.Where were you born.  I was born at the Royal Brisbane Women's Hospital on January the 9th. I share my birth date with a paternal aunt as well as a maternal great great grandfather, John Gottlieb Narger (Nerger). John was born in 1864. 

3. Who was present at your birth? I know that my father was not present at my birth but I do recall my mother telling me that an obstetrician and a midwife were there. My mother had a very difficult birth and almost lost me. I am certain that my two grandmothers and one grandfather would have been waiting nearby to hold the first grandchild on both sides of the family.  

4. Dimensions. I have a beautiful baby book in which my mother lovingly recorded all of my baby details, however, as is always the way,  I can't find it ( it's packed away somewhere...). From memory I was weighed around 7 lb 4 oz. 

5. Day of Birth. Time of Birth.  The day of the week on which I was born was a Sunday. Both of my sisters were also born on a Sunday. As children we used to recite the traditional Monday's Child rhyme, loving the fact that we were all Sunday's Child.

Not only were my sisters and I all born on a Sunday but incredibly there was a coincidence with regard to the times of our births. All three of us were born with the number 10 in our birth times. I was born at 10 minutes to nine o'clock am.  My next sister was born at 9 minutes after ten o'clock am and the third and last sister was born at 10.20 am and all on a Sunday. We sisters loved these coincidences as children. 

6. Description of Hair and Eyes. I had NO hair when I was born. In fact from the photo above of me standing in my front yard in Brisbane, you may notice that I had very little hair even at 11 months. My mother tried hard to attach large bows to my head to show that I was girl! What little hair I had was very blonde. My eyes were and still are blue. All three sisters in my family have different coloured eyes One sister has green eyes and the other has hazel eyes. I have only just discovered where the hazel eyes come from. I have found a convict great great great grandfather who had hazel eyes. With a green eyed mother and a blue eyed father, we never knew where those hazel eyes originated. My  sister with green eyes has a daughter who also has inherited the beautiful hazel eyes. 

Me aged 2 years - still sporting a big bow in my hair!
If it wasn't a huge bow.. it was a big bonnet!
I still have the above bonnet which is pale blue and beautifully made to match my dress by my mother.

Here I am with my father on Maroochydore beach

I would like to dedicate this post to the memory of my parents, Alwynne Jean (Reece-Hoyes )24/9/1931-29/10/1995 and Colin John MacDade (McDade) 1/10.1930- 26/2/1999.

The Book of Me - Who am I?

The Book of Me - Prompt 1

I am participating in The Book of me, Written by You challenge created by Julie Goucher of the Anger's Rest Blog. Julie's concept; a series of blogging and writing prompts that help family historians capture their own memories and write about themselves. Click  here for more information. 
Julie Goucher has inspired geneabloggers around the world, to rise to the challenge presented by her, through her weekly prompts. I see this as a unique opportunity for family historians to delve into their memories and to leave a written record of information about their own lives. 

Prompt 1. Who are you?

I am.... in no particular order, but definitely family first....
  1.  A loving wife, a devoted mother to one son and three daughters, a proud grandmother of two beautiful grand daughters and a cousin of many wonderful  relatives worldwide!
  2. A friend. I am blessed to have incredibly wonderful friends. 
  3. A teacher. 
  4. A person who cares about the welfare of others. I have four beautiful sponsor children in Kenya, Bolivia, Spain and Sri Lanka. I am a member of which helps people less fortunate by loaning micro loans to assist in the building of businesses and in their daily life.
  5. A student in constant pursuit of knowledge....I love to learn new things and am currently studying an Advanced Diploma in Local, Applied and Family History through the University of New England. I have studied English, German and History at university. 
  6. A researcher. My main passions are history and family history. The fartherest back I have traced family (and verified my sources) is my Swiss Haberling and Ryser families which go back to Kaspar Haberling and Xander Ryser both born in the late 1400's. 
  7. A musician. Over the years I have played a number of musical instruments, including the guitar (I still play), piano, flute, drums (I still drive the family mad, tapping away with drum sticks, fingers or anything that will beat a rhythm!), and violin. Music is my second language.
  8. A speaker of the German language as well as my native English.
  9. An artist. Here and there (I have given many away) I have drawings and paintings I have produced over the years. Lately I have not had time to pursue this passion.
  10. A writer... I love to write. As a child I wrote stories and poems and I am quite a few chapters into several novels I am yet to day!
  11. A lover of animals. I have three fluffy Maltese dogs, Tigerlily May, Bella Rose and Maisy Bluebell who are cuddly but naughty. I also adore my grand-dog ( daughter's dog), a fabulous cream chihuahua named Frankie-Tallulah. Other pets include horses , birds, fish and rabbits. It could be said that it is best I don't walk past a pet shop.....
  12. An avid reader. My collection of books has outgrown my home. I have tsundokus (piles of unread books - thankyou fellow blogger Chris Goopy for that fabulous word) in several rooms. I particularly love collecting old books, especially if they have the name of the original owner written in them. I also love to read blogs which others write.
  13. A collector. Apart from books, I collect antique teapots which I keep in a glass display cabinet but which I like to take out to use as well. I love that I can use my collection. I also enjoy pondering the history of a teapot as I pour tea from it. 
  14. Addicted to technology. I could not live without my computer, Ipad and Iphone.
  15. Addicted to social media. I love participating on Facebook, twitter, Google Plus, Pinterest, name a few. I tell my family that I'm networking....
  16. A blogger. Blogging my family history has become an important part of my life. Blogging not only records my family history but my blogs have put me in touch with many wonderful relatives from all around the globe. Through blogging I have learned a great deal. I have become a much more competent researcher and discovered some otherwise unknown to me, family stories.
  17. A photographer. I enjoy taking photographs (as anyone who is a Facebook friend will tell you!). I  participated in the 2011 and 2012 Google Plus Photographic walks in Sydney and in Adelaide. Everywhere I go, my camera and Iphone are on hand to record things that interest me.
  18. A dancer (perhaps fanciful thinking these days...). I studied ballet, tap, jazz and Irish dancing for 14 years as a child and a teenager. The passion to dance has never left me, much to the amusement of my daughters. I am banned from watching dance programs on television as I am known to be then found in a far corner of the house tapping, jigging or twirling dangerously. As an adult I have learned line dancing and I am determined to take lessons in ' middle aged lady' tap dancing... despite family protests. 
  19. A positive person. I like to believe there is a something good that comes from every situation or challenge that comes my way. 
  20. A believer. I believe in God, in angels, in love, in the joy that comes from living every day to its fullest, and in fairies at the bottom of the garden. I believe that a sense of humour is an essential ingredient in a contented life. I believe that achievement comes through effort and that you are never too old to try new things.... like blogging and tap dancing....

Me aged 10 years...

The Book of Me - My Childhood Home part 1

JMy Childhood Home - Part 1

My Fourth Birthday at Enoggera

My Childhood Home as a prompt will unavoidably elicit a long response from me, since, by the age of 14 years, I had lived in five homes in Brisbane, at Enoggera, The Gap, Kenmore, Pullenvale and Jindalee.  Each home holds unique and special memories for me. In addition to these homes, my family spent one year living with my paternal grandparents in Garfield Drive Paddington Heights, while we built a new home. For me personally, my earliest memories are my most evocative. Of my early formative years, before my reminiscences of home life become interwoven with school, friends, sports and hobbies, my memories are affectionately of my home and my family.

Enoggera (marked red) and other suburbs of Brisbane

My first childhood home was in Crescent Avenue Enoggera, a suburb of Brisbane. Enoggera was an area of Brisbane first settled in the 1840's as farming land. The name Enogerra is believed to have been derived from an Aboriginal word Euoggera, which meant a 'place of water' or 'a place of breeze', Euoggera. It is thought that a simple clerical error afforded the suburb the name Enogerra. One of the prominent pioneer families in this area was the Pullen family who I believe a place I later lived called Pullenvale was named after. 

Photo: [State Library of Qld] Enoggera Creek 1906

My father and myself at my Enoggera home

The house,  pictured above, is where I lived until I was 7 years old. To this day, I have strong recollections of my first childhood home. The house, although not old enough to be considered a 'Queenslander' in style was typical of a Queensland 1950's home. Like so many homes in Queensland, ours was  timber constructed. It had a brick base at the front and at the back of the house which was slightly higher, as the yard sloped away, timber slats filled the gaps between concrete stumps. 

My fourth birthday party at Crescent Avenue

Although I only lived in the house at Enoggera until I was seven years old, I can still vividly recall the first house that I called home. My parents owned the house and so it reflected them both very much. My mother, Alwynne Jean MacDade ( Reece-Hoyes) had been an interior decorator so her style was reflected inside the home and in the garden. My mother was well known for her creative gardens and it was a familiar sight for neighbours to see us pull up outside our home with a car full of plants and barely room for we children.  My father, Colin John MacDade (McDade) who would very much today be referred to as a D.I.Y man, built a booth style table with padded bench seats in our kitchen. The kitchen, which was on the right hand side of the house at the rear, was a place in my home where I spent a lot of time helping my mother to bake. Our piano had pride of place in the open plan lounge dining area, which was entered directly from the front door. I don't recall having a formal dining table until our next house which we built new in the leafy suburb of The Gap when my mother splashed out on purple leather Grant Featherstone designer lounge and dining furniture. 

The Grant Featherstone lounge chairs my mother bought in purple

My Enoggera home was a two bedroom house, so my younger sister and I shared a bedroom.  My father painted my pink bedroom walls a pretty pale lemon colour just before my sister was born so I am guessing that he was expecting a son. Lemon walls with lemon and lilac bedspreads were the colours I think about in my bedroom in my first home. Whenever I see the lilac flowers of Jacaranda trees and the yellow of Silky Oaks which grow abundantly in Queensland and which often flower together, I nostalgically think of my bedroom at Enoggera. My father, who was very clever with his hands, built my first bed. I was extremely proud of that bed because it had a blackboard and shelf as a bed head and I was the envy of all of my friends. I wonder now, looking back, if the inevitable chalk dust on my bed was perhaps not quite as popular with my mother.

I have a very clear recollection of the bathroom in our Enoggera home. This memory has most likely remained with me because of one distinctly happy event. I recall my mother standing beside the bathtub in which I was bathing, teaching me to do a dance called the Twist. While my sister and I were sharing a bath,  the 1960's Beatle's hit, 'Twist and Shout', (originally known as 'Shake it up Baby') began to play on the radio. Singing along to this song, my mother  began to show us a dance known as The Twist. Possibly whilst I was in the bath was not the safest place for me to attempt my first ever twist and shake, but dance in the bathtub I did. I can still recall the shrieks of laughter coming from that small bathroom. This was the first time I heard of the group known as the Beatles and although I was too young at the time to understand the impact their music was to have upon the world, their music and the memory of my mother dancing, prompts a flashback to my childhood home. I only have to hear the song Twist and Shout  to recollect a happy memory.

The Twist

The colour of our house changed every few years when my father painted it. He was somewhat of a perfectionist about the appearance of our home and garden. I remember the house as being a greyish green colour.  My father is pictured above holding me as a baby, when the house was a lighter colour than I recall.  I have a clear recollection of my parents painting samples of  colours on the back of our house, to choose from, when I was around four years old. My father and grandfather had built a cubby house for my sister and I, in our backyard which we called our 'Little House'. It was a beautifully constructed miniature of our own house and was even painted to match our home. I was permitted to paint colour samples on my cubby house whilst my father did so on the real house. My cubby, unlike our home, had colourful red, green and yellow timber louvre windows, which opened by means of a small hanging chain. My sister and I  spent many halcyon days playing in our 'Little House'.

 My backyard was a wonderful playground for my early years. I had a blue and red tandem swing which as you can see in the photograph below, fitted more than two young children on it.   

My sister, left, myself and my cousin on our swing.

Our back yard and fence adjoined land owned by the the Enoggera Army Barracks. Before I began attending  pre-School at the Ashgrove Memorial Kindergarten at the age of three, one of my favourite things to do was to picnic in our back garden. My mother would pack a picnic hamper filled with delicious tomato sandwiches, freshly baked cream buns, drinks and ... cake... but I daresay that I have spoiled that delightful image with my cake tin confession! After spreading a blanket  in the back yard my mother, my sister and I langorously enjoyed those pleasant picnics, and many a summer feast ended with sticky fingers from a home made ice-blocks. I recall that  whenever I was in in backyard, I most desperately wanted to see soldiers over the fence. Apart from the obstacle of a very high fence, the actual army barracks were quite a distance away and over a hill so I never did achieve my childhood dream of seeing soldiers marching.

My grandfather, Colin Hamilton McDade, built a huge sandpit underneath a large clump of banana trees which grew magnificently in the back yard of the home at Enoggera. Those trees yielded delicious fresh bananas and along with paw paws, cumquats, mulberries and fresh grapes picked straight from the vine growing against the side fence, we children feasted on fruit every day. I have one particularly painful memory of playing in our sandpit. It was a large sandpit with a low seat surrounding it for us to sit on. One warm summer's day, I was sitting on that seat and leaning into the sandpit to dig a tunnel, when I noticed a bee slowly walking in the sand. Thinking it hurt I picked it up and called to my mother, 'Look mummy, a poor bee. It's sick and can't fly. '. ' Put it down at once,' replied my mother calmly. 'It will sting you.' 'Oh no', said I, It's a nice bee!' Before my mother could reply, the bee stung me ... and flew away, leaving me in bewildered and excruciating pain. Not learning my lesson that day, it was many bee stings later whilst making clover chain necklaces at my next home that I finally concluded that bees were not nice at all! 

I was fortunate as a young child to enjoy a great deal of freedom. As a four year old, I knew all of the children in my street and we played at will at each others' homes or at a large oval at the end of our street.  Bright yellow flowering cassia trees lined the fence between my neighbour's house and mine and these made perfect 'ladders' to climb to the top of the fence and to jump over into the next door yard. Whenever my father pruned the cassias I used to play in the big pile of branches pretending it was a forest. 

Cassia trees - cassia fistula

On weekends, teams of marching girls competed with their precision drills, on the oval and each Saturday,as soon as I heard the rythmic drums and music begin. I would hurry to the end of my street to watch.  At four years of age I wanted nothing more than to wear a white pleated skirt and white boots and to march  in uniform to the beat of drums. As much as I wanted to be a marching girl, however, my mother had other plans for me. At four years of age I was enrolled in tennis lessons, making use of  my mother's own tennis racquet. I can clearly recall, on my first day of lessons, the tennis coach joking that the racquet was bigger than me. I also began ballet lessons at the age of four. These were both activities that I kept up until my late teenage years with dreams of marching and drills receding into my active routine of Brownies, Gymnastics and other childhood activities. But I will say this - whenever there was an award for marching on the parade ground at my Primary school - I  won it!

I wanted to be a marching girl.

Most of my memories from my first home are happy ones, however, one sad incident impacted heavily upon me at the age of five. I had made a friend at school who was coming to play at my home one afternoon. As I stood waiting for her for what seemed like hours, I heard my neighbour telling my mother that Michelle had been hit by a car crossing the main road near my street and killed. As my friend had crossed the road in front of a car that had stopped for her, a less patient driver, overtook the stationary car and hit her. I don't think that I fully understood what happened at the time, although I do remember walking to her house a few days later,  to tell her mother how sorry I was. After my friend was killed, my mother became nervous about me walking to school and for some time after that, my grandfather drove  me to and from school each day. 

The house painted a darker colour.

I started Primary School from my home at Enoggera, after two wonderful years attending pre-school/ Kindergarten, where my teacher, Miss Lightner was adored by all. I was very proud of the fact that my father and grandfather built an exciting playgound at my Kindergarten, complete with a tunnel made from a huge concrete pipe covered by a turf covered hill. I attended the same Primary school that my father had attended in 1936. The Oakleigh State School was quite a long walk from my home but at just five years of age I happily walked to and from school, sometimes accompanied by my neighbour Denise. As an adventurous five year old, by the end of my first year, I had discovered a number of alternate and interesting routes to school, several of which, only as an adult have I realised were quite unsafe for a five year old child. But my mother knew none of this and undeterred I continued to explore the areas and suburbs which surrounded my home. My favourite route to school took me through a bushland area and across a bridge over a creek. I thought this journey to be a most exciting adventure. One day I was an explorer and the next, a hunter! I found the bush to be a place of unlimited imagination. Another way home that I discovered, was along a busy main road,which in one section had no footpath, but instead ran right up to a steep cliff. I walked as close to the cliff as possible to avoid being hit by a car. After my friend was killed on this same road I stopped walking by this route. One would never think of allowing a young child so much liberty today and I have no doubt that my mother would have thoroughly disapproved of my expeditions, having told me strictly to walk  to and from school according to her safe directions. 

Oakleigh State School

Our home at Enoggera had an outdoor toilet, since the suburb was not yet sewered. As a young child I hated using this toilet.  I recall it as being very dark when the door was closed and I never once ventured in there without a fear that a spider would bite me. I quite clearly remember the overpowering smell of tar which lined the tin under the timber seat, and which was replaced by men who arrived weekly in the sanitation truck to empty the pan. ( So you can see that as an impressionable five year old, using a cake 'pan' for a toilet was really quite clever!) I loved to visit my paternal grandmother because she had an inside flushing toilet. Shortly after I moved from the Enoggera home, the area was sewered.

Thinking about my first childhood home, has stirred so many memories. Cracker night, as we children called Guy Fawks night was always anticipated with much excitement. The baker delivered fresh bread in his van daily and the milkman left bottles of milk on the doorstep early each morning. The fishman drove along our street once a week ringing a bell and selling fresh fish, although with my father a keen fisherman we usually had a plentiful supply of freshly caught bream or flathead. A truck delivered soft drinks and the Electrolux representative called regularly to provide service calls for my mother's vacuum cleaner. The highlight of the week for the children in my street, however, was the icecream truck. The driver rang a bell and children ran from every house in summer months to buy flavoured ices. Home delivery was a commonplace service when I was a small child.

My father constructed concrete garden edges around all of my mother's garden beds as well as car tracks in our driveway. I loved to watch him mix the cement in his cement mixer. Both my sister and I left our hand prints in the concrete driveway at the house in Crescent Avenue, Enoggera. My first childhood home was not without some memorable childhood accidents and my father's concrete was involved in at least one. I recall painfully, when aged only three, I dragged a heavy bench to the side fence to chat to neighbours, despite my mother's warning to not to climb up on the rickety bench.  The call to chat over the fence with the children who lived next door, lured me into disobedience and of course I did fall. Straight back onto the concrete, splitting my head open, acquiring concussion and requiring an ambulance ride to hospital for stitches.

My father had a workshop underneath the house where we made Mother's Day gifts such as a tea towel hanging rack, sanded and painted by my sister and myself, supervised by our father. My father also craftfully built a small table and two little chairs for my sister and I in his workshop beneath the house. Working for Massey Ferguson,  a large tractor firm, my father was often away on country business trips but he always found time to build wonderful things for me. From the age of four, I owned a progression of different sized stilts made by my father, and I became very proficient on them indeed. My stilts were a very popular attraction in my street.

Recently I went back to Brisbane and took a drive down memory lane to look at all of my childhood homes and schools. The house at Enoggera is now painted a bright yellow and the back yard seems so much smaller than I had recalled. The house hd been extended taking up more of the back yard,   however, just seeing it again evoked so many wonderful childhood memories. A deck has been added at the front of the house and and my parents' bedroom window is now a sliding glass door, but many of the windows remain original.

My first home in Enoggera, in 2011. painted yellow

I was pleased to see a new generation of parents and children enjoying my old home

When I was seven years of age, my parents bought a half acre block of land in a new, bushland suburb of Brisbane called The Gap. When I first saw the land at the Gap, on which my new home was to be built, I thought all my dreams had come true. We had a creek running through the back of our yard, with a sandy little beach to play on. While our new split- level home was under construction, I spent many weekends playing down by the creek, searching for a platypus and exploring the bush and mountain on the far side of it. As an adventurous 7 year old, this was a fairytale place to live and a huge adventure.

I don't really remember moving from the Enoggera house and as a young child I found everything new to be exciting. A new home and a new school was just a big adventure to me. We were to live with my paternal grandparents while our new home was built. Their Queenslander style home high on a hill at Paddington, was one of my favourite places to be with its huge mango tree in the backyard and dark spaces beneath the house on high stilts to explore. Here, at Paddington, I caught the tram to school and played with the many children who lived in the street, including the four children of policeman Terry Lewis, later Police Commissioner who lived next door to my grandparents. . Part 2 will cover my year at Paddington where I attended the Bardon State School (where I have now discovered that Shauna Hicks, was a year behind me) and my expeditions and adventures while I lived at The Gap from age 7 1/2 to 10 years. I will try to briefly cover my childhood home at Kenmore, where in a war with a wasps nest, I came out the worse for wear, and a 13 acre property at Pullenvale complete with cows, ducks, chickens, a fruit orchard, lots of snakes and a near drowning for my sister, plus our last move to Jindalee, will complete my childhood homes. Make a cup of tea folks... this could be a long blog!

My Grandparents home at Garfield Drive, Paddington Heights, Brisbane